
Do the people you lead treat you like you're their mother?
Or the mother they wish they had?
Mothers are our first leaders. We learn what leadership looks like by watching them.
As their daughters, we carry a mix of gratitude, judgment, and disappointment (if not outrage) for how sexism showed up on them, how they treated us, and for the internalized sexism they passed down.
We crafted our own leadership style either by mimicking or acting the complete opposite of what we experienced and observed.
Depending how much we've conformed to the limits the larger society puts on us, we've been rewarded or punished for what we've figured out. (As female leaders we can either be "likeable" or "competent" but not both.)
And then there's our own relationships with other female leaders.
Have you looked to female leaders and mentors in your career as mother substitutes? Or do you notice feeling similarly to these female leaders as you do toward your mother?
Working on our relationships with our mothers is essential for any effective female leader.
This is why we've decided to host our first ever women's leadership retreat in Nayarit, Mexico in honor of LJIST's 30th anniversary!
Join Us
Transforming Women's
Leadership Program
This transformational programs is comprised of an in-person retreat and a remote 10-week follow-up small group coaching program.

🌴 In-Person Transforming Women's Leadership Retreat
Saturday, April 27 - Saturday, May 4, 2024
Mar de Jade Retreats and Wellness Resort, Chacala, Nayarit, México

🤲🏽 Follow-Up Small Group Coaching Program
Monday, May 6 – Thursday, July 11, 2024
Small Group Coaching Sessions: Tuesday, June 4 and Tuesday, July 9, 2024 (Exact Times TBA)



Lodging & Accommodations
Surrounded by tropical jungle on three sides, Mar de Jade sits on the shores of Playa Chacala. This small Mexican fishing village both retains a traditional way of life and offers contemporary recreational activities.
Participants are required to book their accommodations directly with Mar de Jade and can choose from single or double accommodations and a variety of room types, as availability permits.
More information and a link to book your room will be included in your registration confirmation email.

OCEAN VIEW
with Private Balcony or Terrace
$2,550 Single / $1,700 Double

GARDEN VIEW
with Private Balcony or Terrace
$2,250 Single / $1,550 Double

GUEST ROOM
with Garden or Jungle Views
$1,900 Single / $1,300 Double
Each rate is per person and includes seven nights accommodations, three buffet-style meals per day, and taxes. The rate does not include: specialty drinks, spa treatments, excursions, transportation and/or gratuities. Ground transportation can be arranged with Mar de Jade staff upon booking. An additional person can be added to the double room rate, increasing the total room cost by $800/additional person.
Resort Amenities

Your stay directly supports Mar de Jade's Community Projects: health and wellness, youth education, sustainability, and micro-industry programs.
Meet Your Guides

NANCI LUNA JIMéNEZ
LEAD TRAINER
When Melissa and I scheduled our Transforming Female Leadership Program for spring 2024, I didn't realize how timely in my own life and leadership journey this would be.
Since my mother’s passing this September, it seems even more fitting to mark LJIST's 30th anniversary in Mexico. Mexico is where my mother’s mother Rita de Luna, mi abuelita, and one of the namesakes of my organization, was born and raised.
I'm a speaker, author, coach, and facilitator who has committed my life to ending oppression through personal healing.
I've committed to my own healing for more than 30 years to be a transformative guide, heart-centered listener, and authentic companion for leaders and change-makers committed to racial healing and social justice.
Learn More About NanciMELISSA MILLER
ASSISTANT TRAINER
As Vice President at the Luna Jiménez Institute for Social Transformation, I am especially passionate about work to heal from the effects of internalized sexism and its intersections with other forms of oppression.
I've led hundreds of women to examine the impacts of sexism and male domination on their lives, relationships, and leadership.
I'm engaged in a body of healing work to authentically show the impacts of sexism on me as I build more intimate relationships with females of all backgrounds. Together we can take bolder leadership outside the limits society has tried to put on us and transform all aspects of our lives.
Learn More About Melissa
I've been through countless different types of leadership and healing trainings and NOTHING compares to this. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
LJIST Participant
This special anniversary program is limited to just 16 participants.
Will you be one of them?
SUPPORTED
$1,797
FAIR
$2,797
REBALANCING
$3,797
Please note, these prices do not include travel, lodging, and/or accommodations.
Our payment form allows you to "pay what you want" with a base price at the supported level ($1,797). To pay the recommended "fair" or "rebalancing" fee, or any other amount, simply input your contribution into the "Name Your Price" field.
A 4-payment plan option is also provided by Afterpay.
Have Questions?
In addition the robust FAQ below, we hosted an info session on Wednesday, January 24. Click below to watch the 40-minute recording.
Watch Info Session RecordingFrequently Asked Questions
LJIST has provided answers to some frequently asked questions below. If you don't see an answer to your question, you can also review Mar de Jade's FAQ or email us at info (at) ljist.com.
Program FAQs
What is the retreat schedule?
Am I required to participate in all the program activities?
What is included in the LJIST registration fee?
WHAT IS NOT INCLUDED IN THE REGISTRATION FEE?
What are the participant commitments?
Why are you asking participants to commit to not drink alcohol or take drugs?
What are the prerequisites for the retreat?
I noticed this is a transforming "Women's" Leadership Program... Who can participate?
Registration FAQs
How Do I Register?
Is There a Payment Plan?
Do I have to apply?
How many participants will there be?
What is the cancellation policy?
Will you offer this program again?
Travel FAQs
What airport do I fly into?
How do I get to Mar de Jade from the airport?
What time should I arrive and depart?
What kind of money should I bring?
Where should I exchange money?
What documents do I need?
What is the weather like?
Is this area of Mexico safe to visit?
Lodging & Food FAQs
Do I have to stay at Mar de Jade?
What is required to book my room with Mar de Jade?
If I'm registering individually, can I get a roommate?
What should I pack?
What is the food like?
Can I request dietary accommodations?
Will I have trouble with the food or water?
Is Mar de Jade Accessible?

I’m just so blown away by this whole experience and feel almost speechless. It was profound and life changing, and the facilitators were exceptional.
LJIST Participant
This special anniversary program is limited to just 16 participants.
Will you be one of them?
SUPPORTED
$1,797
FAIR
$2,797
REBALANCING
$3,797
Please note, these prices do not include travel, lodging, and/or accommodations.
Our payment form allows you to "pay what you want" with a base price at the supported level ($1,797). To pay the recommended "fair" or "rebalancing" fee, or any other amount, simply input your contribution into the "Name Your Price" field.
A 4-payment plan option is also provided by Afterpay.